Debra Fileta


Debra K. Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a passionate author and speaker who travels across the country spreading the message that relationships can be done right! She lives in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida with her husband, and two children—and these beach bums couldn't be happier!

Debra is a regular contributor at Relevant Magazine and, with well over 100 articles written about love, marriage, dating, sex, and relationships.  Her articles have also been featured in magazines and websites such as Today's Christian Woman, Proverbs 31 Ministries, Converge Magazine, Charisma Magazine, Christianity Today, and many others.

She is the author of the book True Love Dates (Zondervan, 2013), and the creator of the popular website, where she candidly writes about love, dating, marriage and relationships from her perspective as a professional counselor. She challenges millennials to approach dating in a way that is psychologically sound, emotionally healthy, and spiritually grounded.

Debra's second book, Choosing Marriage (Harvest House, May 2018), defines eight powerful choices to encourage and equip readers to take their marriage from average to exceptional, by choosing we before me.

Twitter: @DebFileta